
The Identity Reset: How to Rewrite the Story You’re Living
Who are you when no one’s watching?
So many of us are living on autopilot.
We get stuck in roles, routines, and stories we never consciously chose.
We tell ourselves:
“I’m not the kind of person who can do that.”
“It’s too late to start again.”
“This is just how I’ve always been.”
“I’m not good enough.”
And then what is even worse is… we allow these stories to become our identity and that
identity dictates our thoughts, actions, and what we believe is possible.
But here’s the truth:
You can rewrite the story.
You’re allowed to evolve.
To outgrow old beliefs.
To shift from surviving to thriving.
And, here’s how to begin:
1. Notice the Story - and THANK it
Listen to the language you use.
Are you shrinking yourself?
Are you defining yourself by past mistakes or other people’s expectations?
2. Choose a New Narrative – one that WORKS for you
What’s the story you want to live?
How would the next version of you think, speak, and act?
Get specific. Embody it.
3. Anchor It With Action – BUILD the process
Start small.
Choose daily habits and decisions that reinforce your new story.
Identity follows action, not the other way around.
When you begin to lead from your rewritten story, everything changes… your energy, your
decisions, your relationships and most importantly, your belief in what’s possible.
Live a successful, purposeful and fully charged life everyday!
Your coach,
Bel
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